One simple rule for happy Relationship or friendship

What we need to have a perfect life?

If one has to answer without thinking then he or she might say that a good spacious home, a comfortable car and lots of investments. But, after pondering for some time we will realize that everything else is of no use if don't have good relationship with the people surrounding us or with the family. Because we humans are social creature.

We need people for everything. We need family and friends to celebrate our achievements or to share our sorrows.

This is not a new thing to tell you. We all know that and we all have family and friends. But, several times we find ourselves alone even if we have everyone around us. We find out that nothing is working now while everything was working perfectly earlier.

Why so? Let's find out the reason and the  solution.

I will recite and old story which most of us have heard. You only need to relate it with what I am going say next. You can also skip reading story.

                               (Story)

There was a man who had a hen. That hen used to lay a golden egg every day. Every thing was going fine, men was getting everything of his use with the help of that hen and he was also getting wealthier every day. But, one day greed entered in his mind and he lost his reason. So he decided to kill that hen and took all the golden eggs from its stomach which he thought it had in its tommy. But, the result was obvious, the hen died and he also ended his source of livelihood.

So, end of story, now get back to our life. Same thing we do with our relationship. Our relationship are like hen. It gives us several happy moments everyday, which we can use to counter our daily stress and when there is no stress we can lead a very great life which no money can buy.
But, then enters greed. Instead of enjoying those sever happy moments we start exploiting our relationship. We start expecting that our relationship should make us happy all the time. If it doesn't happen then we start blaming each other and finally ruin our relationship.

So, what can we do?

Just don't be greedy. Because, when we become greedy we lose our reason, and started to exploit our relationship. We need to understand that no relationship can exist if you try to control it. It is like holding water in your hand. It will stay as long as you give it the freedom to stay on your palm. It will live, as long as you don't put any kind of pressure of your expectations. It will give you several moment to cherish to celebrate. But, the only limitation is, that you can not force those moments to happen.

So just savour your relationship or your friendship. Let it lay the golden egg on its own. Before expecting anything feed it, take good care of it. This is the only rule you need to follow to make your relationship work.

Another important thing is that one can not change in a blink of an eye. Just after reading this blog or listening any podcast or watching any video, things will not change. For change we need to put constant efforts. So start practicing in this direction and thing will change for good for sure, if not already good.

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