Weird title it may look, as both the words mentioned possess the same meaning. However close it may look but indeed an ability to lead an independent life is total freedom. But with freedom comes responsibility and it is not free; the life’s ultimate goal comes disguised in the form of hard work and discipline ability to question our beliefs.
To protect itself the early humans would form a group, eventually this group became tribe and believe it or not we- the most sophisticated and civilized, still believe in the idea of tribe. A tribe comes with certain attributes that’s tailor made and we hang around in the tribe that suits us. But in order to become independent and strong minded we must rely on ourselves to question a given belief, however puritarian or egalitarian it looks. It’s easy to get carried away and fall in the sphere of influence of other smarty. When this happens remind yourself that everyone grows at their own pace. Nobody can compose your story you are the sole maker of your life.
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Remember your first cry! That would be a tough memory test, but you have heard it , right. The umbilical cord the baby is attached to is the source of its life; when it’s cut it sends jitter, that cry is the expression of the jitter as the baby can’t utter a word but slowly it forgets its first home- the mother’s womb, and starts getting adapted to the new environment i.e. the surrounding. Time passes by; we adapt to the new environment. Some 19-20 years of conditioning- the conditioning of getting things at one command and it becomes difficult to think of breaking away from the umbilical cord 2.0.
The idea of independence or taking responsibilities has a cultural and social influence too. There are some countries where this attribution happens as early as 15-16; while in many it may go up to 25-26 years or age. In the extreme end you can put whatever number you wish before the word age. Let’s focus on the pointer that would in general help us to achieve a quintessential of a fulfilled and satisfactory life. The idea of an independent life should get seeded in a person’s mind as soon as possible. We can start with little independence and gradually proceed towards the advance and more mature once. The logic is: Accept The Idea That You Are A Loner Here
• The best approach to wind up autonomous and dependable in life is through a dedication with yourself consistently. For you to genuinely be free and capable, you simply need to consider yourself and begin settling on choices that matters, that moves development, that enable you to deal with yourself and feed in your condition. The main path through life is by being continually ready to take responsibility for the things you do.
• Increment your obligations. Little tasks like cleaning your room, paying your folks' bills, cleaning your vehicles done all the time will clearly cause you to understand the estimation of work and increment your obligations. It has worked for me.
With respect to autonomy, abstain from asking help from others and self-support yourself. Stay away from collective choices. Go with what your heart says. The best opportunity a man can have is opportunity of having free idea and activity.
• Look for what supports your brain, heart, and soul. Music, books, nature—as models. You will require a solid inward manual for assistance you settle on decisions.
• Pick exercises that improve you and the network here and there. You can maintain a strategic distance from or disapprove of the negative ways that would prompt hurt and damage. Think about potential outcomes— - it's extraordinary practice!
• At the point when looked with weight or scorn from friends, recognize it and go back to what sustains you.
• Keep it as straightforward as could reasonably be expected. Express yes to circumstances that may improve your life and work on disapproving of certain things. You can reconsider your choices and alter your perspective and activities as required.
• Regard your voice and your body, which will enable you to treat yourself as well as other people well.
• Whenever exercises or individuals feel awful or begin to control your life, change course and go to what sustains you.
• Expound on your musings and sentiments normally to enable you to process what's happening.
• Don't focus too much on your 'lacks' ( because that can be a downer if you're not wired to be super goal-oriented). Instead, play UP everything that you, yourself happen to be great at. Do those things that can also help others. Figure out what people need that you can provide, and get paid for it. Money is the key to independence. From then, it's on to other topics, like responsibility and maintenance!
• Cut lethal individuals out of your life - you should make your separation from harmful individuals since they will just aggravate you feel about yourselves. You should define a few limits with them and let them realize that their conduct will never again be endured.
• Utilize your instinct every single certain individuals tune in to their guts.
• Tune in to your inward voice-it's critical to be rationally adaptable and aware of your internal voice.
• Quit depending on others-become your own indicator of you.
These are certain pointers that may help you to start practicing the idea of self independence. Remember, we cannot exist fully as independent being. As we live in society we are dependent on others for many chores. So the idea is to attain self respect with gratitude towards every single help you have and will receive in your futire.
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Remember your first cry! That would be a tough memory test, but you have heard it , right. The umbilical cord the baby is attached to is the source of its life; when it’s cut it sends jitter, that cry is the expression of the jitter as the baby can’t utter a word but slowly it forgets its first home- the mother’s womb, and starts getting adapted to the new environment i.e. the surrounding. Time passes by; we adapt to the new environment. Some 19-20 years of conditioning- the conditioning of getting things at one command and it becomes difficult to think of breaking away from the umbilical cord 2.0.
The idea of independence or taking responsibilities has a cultural and social influence too. There are some countries where this attribution happens as early as 15-16; while in many it may go up to 25-26 years or age. In the extreme end you can put whatever number you wish before the word age. Let’s focus on the pointer that would in general help us to achieve a quintessential of a fulfilled and satisfactory life. The idea of an independent life should get seeded in a person’s mind as soon as possible. We can start with little independence and gradually proceed towards the advance and more mature once. The logic is: Accept The Idea That You Are A Loner Here
• The best approach to wind up autonomous and dependable in life is through a dedication with yourself consistently. For you to genuinely be free and capable, you simply need to consider yourself and begin settling on choices that matters, that moves development, that enable you to deal with yourself and feed in your condition. The main path through life is by being continually ready to take responsibility for the things you do.
• Increment your obligations. Little tasks like cleaning your room, paying your folks' bills, cleaning your vehicles done all the time will clearly cause you to understand the estimation of work and increment your obligations. It has worked for me.
With respect to autonomy, abstain from asking help from others and self-support yourself. Stay away from collective choices. Go with what your heart says. The best opportunity a man can have is opportunity of having free idea and activity.
• Look for what supports your brain, heart, and soul. Music, books, nature—as models. You will require a solid inward manual for assistance you settle on decisions.
• Pick exercises that improve you and the network here and there. You can maintain a strategic distance from or disapprove of the negative ways that would prompt hurt and damage. Think about potential outcomes— - it's extraordinary practice!
• At the point when looked with weight or scorn from friends, recognize it and go back to what sustains you.
• Keep it as straightforward as could reasonably be expected. Express yes to circumstances that may improve your life and work on disapproving of certain things. You can reconsider your choices and alter your perspective and activities as required.
• Regard your voice and your body, which will enable you to treat yourself as well as other people well.
• Whenever exercises or individuals feel awful or begin to control your life, change course and go to what sustains you.
• Expound on your musings and sentiments normally to enable you to process what's happening.
• Don't focus too much on your 'lacks' ( because that can be a downer if you're not wired to be super goal-oriented). Instead, play UP everything that you, yourself happen to be great at. Do those things that can also help others. Figure out what people need that you can provide, and get paid for it. Money is the key to independence. From then, it's on to other topics, like responsibility and maintenance!
• Cut lethal individuals out of your life - you should make your separation from harmful individuals since they will just aggravate you feel about yourselves. You should define a few limits with them and let them realize that their conduct will never again be endured.
• Utilize your instinct every single certain individuals tune in to their guts.
• Tune in to your inward voice-it's critical to be rationally adaptable and aware of your internal voice.
• Quit depending on others-become your own indicator of you.
These are certain pointers that may help you to start practicing the idea of self independence. Remember, we cannot exist fully as independent being. As we live in society we are dependent on others for many chores. So the idea is to attain self respect with gratitude towards every single help you have and will receive in your futire.
Thanks a lot. Please share and Click here to subscribe for updates. You comments and questions are welcomed.
