You suffer more, when you are angry..

What did I learn today, I will tell you in short.

I was listening to Sadguru, and he was explaining about the implications of anger..

Number one thing is that when you become angry you cross the line of sanity and enter into the relm of insanity, and if you keep crossing the line on regular basis, one day you may never return..

Second thing is that when you become angry you suffer more than your victims. So, why you get yourself in such situation for yourself and too all by yourself..

Third thing, when you allow situations to decide the course of your actions, you your body and mind learn thing in that way.. and whenever there will be situation you mind and body will cease to work..

These all three things are very important and manageable when we are sane. Hence, it becomes very important that we remain in our senses and do not create situation that one day we become mad.

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What is the key to success?

Do you want success??

It is a stupid question to ask. Who doesn't want success in life, but the meaning of of success may be different for different people. So the first question we need to ask is "What is the true meaning of Success?"

What is the true meaning of success?

For different people success has different meaning. For some lots of money is success, for some power means success and some are greedy, they may want both i.e. power and money. Still success is not limited to money and power. There are different types of success in life. A scientist sees success differently, an army personnel sees it differently. For a lover holding hand of his lover is a success and for a student scoring good in exam is an ultimate success. So, success can not be defined in a set of limited words. But the key to assure success is more or less same. And a good thing is that both a failure or a successful person knows the key, but the successful person is the one who actually have used the key to unlock the door.

What is the key to success?

Like the keys we see to open the actual lock of any door, they of success also has few levers, and to unlock the door of success you have to align all the levers of the with the lock of door to success. Those leavers can we define as Hard work, determination, consistency, focus etc. There can we few more but these are most important. Because once you get these levers aligned, the first door opens and the keys for others will be behind the first door.

But the important thing is that, you have to make the first key by your own like a locksmith. Though all the levers are important, to begin with the journey of success you need to carve them in a series. So, which is the first one to start.

Which one to start with?

We have heard success quotes that there is no shortcut to hard word, consistency is the and several others. And yes! these all are very important. But the first thing to start with is the FOCUS. Why focus is so important. I have my personal experience that whenever we try to go after success the biggest enemy we have to face is "deviation of thoughts". We are willing to do hard work, we are willing to be consistent, but our mind will drag us from our work to dwell in the past or to worry about feature and sometime to see cozy dreams of future. And this make focus the most important thing to begin with.

How to build FOCUS?

First thing you need to do is that you have to calculate, honestly, what your aim or goal requires. Then you have to calculate your ability, that where do you stand. Then, for few days (not more than 3 to 4 days) you can start with your ability. Try to push a little every day. After 3 to 4 days you have to increase your efforts upto the level required, and after 15 days you have to increase your efforts till 70% of your required time or efforts.

You will not achieve expected output or results.

Because your mind will not stay at one place. It will drag you from your work. It will give you artificial reasons to leave your work. It will remind you that one day some person told you something and that did hurt you. Sometimes it will show you beautiful dreams of future, but you have to avoid indulging in every such trap. And this falling in to the trap and untangling will take a lot of time. But you keep doing your job, you stay at your work. Spent required amount of time on your goal. Keep disregarding the lollypops given by your mind. and one day (that will be very soon if you keep doing this) you will find that you are focused at your goal. Another strange thing you will observe that you are consistently working hard on your goal. 

This wont be easy.

Definitely! this will not be an easy thing to do in the beginning. But remember, that SUCCESS always resides out of your comfort zone. You have to step out of your comfort zone. Read the quote bellow which I wrote on a writing app Your Quotes..👇 

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Present is the only truth

What has happened in past, is a dream. This will never happen again, like dreams.

Yes, similar kind of events may happen. But, that depends on you. You can avoid the repetitions by not repeating the same things if, you don't want them to happen; and you can cause the repetitions by doing similar things, if you want them to happen. Its upto you.

Same goes with the future. It is very unlikely that things happen in the way you are thinking about them to happen. Again your understanding, your actions can cause or avoid the similar kinds of events. So, future is also a dream.

When you keep dwelling in your past, or you keep yourself busy imagining your future, you PRESENT BECOMES HOLLOW. And hollow present will not fulfill your future. And in any way it will not remove anything unwanted from your past. So the best thing to do, is to not affect your present by any past event or future event. Keep it as pure as possible, without any contamination. Do neither be sad or worrisome because of past or future, nor be unnecessarily happy because something may happen in present. Both ways you are deviating from making the present best.

Remember present is the only truth and the ultimate truth, and truth should not be mixed with any thing. Then it will become a lie, and will cause same damage as a lie would cause.

I am not saying anything new. But, it is good to remember if you are causing any damage to your present right now. If, you are reading this, may be the God wants to convey the message through my blog. Listen to him.. This blog is just a medium, don't ignore these words. And, please share, may be you become the medium to pass the message to someone in need.

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