Don't judge your goals, judge your efforts.

DON'T JUDGE YOUR GOALS,

JUDGE YOUR EFFORTS. -SwamiMohit

Hello Everyone

How are you? I hope and wish all of you are doing great. You all must be trying to achieve your set goals and fulfill your dreams. And today I am going to talk about our goals, our dreams only. Friends! most of the times those who work for their goals in a planned way they achieve what they want, and it's a great thing. But sometimes we fail and we become skeptical about our dreams our goals. Whether I can achieve this or not? If I set the right goal for myself, ain't it too big for me?

Believe in your goal

Let's talk about this. Dear friends, I want to say that the size of our dreams or goals doesn't matter at all. We have the ability to achieve anything or at the same time be also have the ability to lose anything, in spite of every resource we have to hit at the very aim. So, what matters is the desire to achieve our set goals, the efforts we put to fulfill our dreams. Dreams may seem big or small to others only, but to you, your dreams are only dreams, and very much achievable.

The biggest companies were set up by ordinary people. Now they seem extraordinary because what they dreamt was very big for the others. It is very much possible that those people would make fun of them and even ridiculed them. But the achievers never bothered, their dreams were only dreams. they were not big dreams or impossible dreams. But something was really big. that was their faith/belief and the efforts they put to achieve them.

Achieve your goal, achieve your dream

It is like having a field. We can grow any crop we want. China even has grown a plant on the moon, though it lived for a very short period of time. But one day it will be possible to grow plant and they will sustain on the moon. So, if you have a field you can grow any crop of your choice. You can plant a jungle on the same land and you can leave that field to go barren. It is also important just dreaming and setting goals won't help. We have to sow seeds, water them and we have to do all the required harvesting activities to get the desired crop. So, if you are willing to do all the required work, you don't need to look at the size of your dream. You will make that happen for sure. But, if you are honest then also the size of your goal or dream doesn't matter. That will not be materialized anyway.

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Rhythm of my pain.

This poem is written by my friend. He asked me to share it on my blog so here it is..

Rhythm of my pain is out of tune,

Perhaps the strings of my feeling are

Loose

There was no pain and feelings had a

Centre

After I reached the acme of my life

Her footsteps were missing.

-Apurva

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Past vs Present.

Today you are not happy, because yesterday I was not with you. While we can laugh and enjoy the moment, we are arguing on why I was not there at some time in the past.
It is like you are not enjoying a great meal now because you were hungry some day.

In the same way when you have issues today and you need to resolve them now you are basking in glory of your glorious past. If you are focusing on this moment you can resolve your issues. And your happiness is nowhere to go.

Life don't progress in this way, In this way you only create misery when you can laugh dance and be intoxicated in the elixir of bliss.

So, let the past go. But always keep the lesson.

Some wise man rightly said-

Yesterday is history

Tomorrow is mystery 

And

Today is a gift

That's why

We call is present.

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Escape velocity, Gravity and Motivation..

If you are working hard for your success, or to stand out of the crowd. But you are disappointed by the backchat and stupid behaviour of people around you. Then you should take your inspiration from the ROCKET. Yes the rocket. Why?

Because, to reach its destination and to stand out of other vehicle it requires escape velocity. To get that it constantly push itself up. It don't fall for the gravity. And finally it reaches its destination. Not every vehicle reaches in the space.

So, if you want to stand out, if you want to change the way people look at you. You can not fall for gravity. All these back chats, all cursing and efforts to hurt you, by the people around you, work as gravity for you. But you need to constantly push yourself up.

Sometime your own attitude works as gravity. You limit your thinking. You doubt yourself. This is because you have been listening to these people, who drag you down, for a very long period. You know somewhere in your heart that you are here to do something bigger. But you say yourself that you are not ready yet. First I will prepare myself then I will start my journey.

But believe me my friend. You will never be ready. But you are always ready to take one step further from where you are right now. And this one step every day will take you close to your destination, to your destiny.

Some wise man said that "THERE IS NEVER A WRONG TIME TO DO A RIGHT THING."

So, boot up and suit up. Step ahead. And share my post and comment what you think. Give me your support. Wish you all the very best.

The existence/nature is not biased.

Stop whining, complaining and staying in the comfort zone. Come out of it and start working.
Anyone can be biased against you but this nature/existence. It gives us everything. We can extract or gather what ever we need to become what we want. This nature gives us all the opportunity with the assurance that our efforts won't be lost. They will give results for sure. But if we are so habitual to live in the dark, and we won't do anything which doesn't suits us. Then we will reach nowhere.
This attitude has not done anything good till now. Neither it will be beneficial in future. If you really want some change then first thing is to avoid this habit of enjoying the rut.
Yes, If you are not doing anything to come out of your rut then somewhere you are enjoying it.
You have no right to blame anyone else but yourself. So you better come out of your comfort zone, and act.
Wish you all the best.

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Happy forever..

NEVER BE THE VICTIM OF NEGATIVITY AGAIN. Be a child.

Yes. The Line is very catchy, and it is easy and very much possible. Many people won't agree with me, many will think that I will talk about meditation technique or some will say that it is not possible.

Though I said above that it is easy and very much possible but now I will say that it is provided you practice. In the beginning, it is difficult but in few days you will be in paradise where there is nothing like boredom or purposelessness.

But how?

To achieve this I will ask you think about a small kid. Have you every seen a kid who is bored or purposeless? In a normal family where kids are given the attention which is necessary you will see a kid is always busy and never bored. So everyone would like to be like a kid that even if he/she doesn't have anything great to do he/she always fresh and does not feel bored or purposeless. So I will tell you what I observe watching is kid.

1. Kids always CURIOUS. but you will say that kids are curious because everything is new for them, how can a grown man be like this? I will say that it is the limitation of your thoughts that you can not find anything new to learn. Can you confidently say that you know everything? I think the answer is "no". So to make this-this EASY for you I will re-phrase this task.

You always have few things in your mind which you want to learn or you want to know about but you cannot work on them because of your busy life. So, whenever, by luck, you a find yourself bore or have nothing to do you can use this time to work on your these interest and you will feel that time has flown in a blink of an eye.

2. Kids keep them in a moment. This keeps them fresh. The Past or Future dwelling may be amusing but this comes with some desire to be in those moments again or if you think about future then you want to be there fast. But being in a moment does not get you in any desires.

3. Kids DON'T JUDGE PEOPLE. They know who are their family and who are strangers. But they don't judge all the time. If you smile they will smile back or If you don't give a positive look they don't give a damn to you. This third quality is to avoid the negative thoughts. If you are judging people and care about unnecessary people, they come and capture your mind when you have free time and you can not focus on above two things.  

People can give you a list but I think these are three basic and simple things which are necessary to be happy and engaged and to not feel bored.

Obviously, this requires some practice. After some time other things won't matter at all. In the beginning it difficult because mind feeds on negative thoughts. I don't know why our mind like to gather all the things which make us feel miserable. But little practice can help us a lot.

All the best. Be happy forever.

OM Namha Shivay.

Three people

There are three kinds of people.

One, who has nothing and will show off like the whole world works on their instructions. But believe me, nobody believes them. everybody know what are they. They also have the lowest self-esteem. 

Second, those who really are something and they don't mind bragging about what they have. And finally the third kind...

They will never tell anything to anybody, they will never brag about what they have and even the closest to them will never know their girth. They work silently and have no interest in people knowing what they are. I think this is the best kind. There is nothing in making unnecessary noise. 

EGO v/s SELF RESPECT

                                                

EGO

The focus of a person who is under the influence of EGO is always set on others. He always thinks about others. He always wants others to care about him and respect him. Even if others care about him and respect him they never satisfy his EGO. Because Ego can never be satisfied.

                                                     

SELF RESPECT

A person with self-respect always focus on his actions and behavior. He always set high standards for himself. He always do such things and practice such behavior which keeps his inner at peace, always.

Do your Habits complements your Goals????

What we want, is in our control. But what we will get, can not always be in our control. Why? Because most of the time we only wish to get something or to achieve something. But our actions are contrary.

There is a difference between wishing for something and wanting something. When we wish for anything there is no force in it. We just see something and start to wish to get that. But when we want then there is some force in it. We are willing to work for that and make necessary changes in our lifestyle. If you are only wishing then you can not get that. Whatever type of life we are living is depend on the type of habits or lifestyle we have developed for ourselves. To bring any kind of change in your life you have to make changes in your habits.
Thinking about changing the life without changing habits is nothing but fooling oneself. I have experienced this for all my life. Whenever I would want any thing which I did not have at that moment I had to make changes in my habits accordingly.

So, If you have plan for something big, take a look on your habits. It should be a part of your planning to achieve your goals. If your habits are not according to your goal then make provision for amending them accordingly to accelerate the process..

When we see a successful person we only see the result. We don't see that what he has done to get that success. Normal people only wish to be like him. But, those who really want to be like them they try to know their life style, habits and things which they do differently from the others.

This one quote which I heard in Ted talk is relevant here.

YOUR LIFE DOESN'T GET BETTER BY CHANCE, IT GETS BETTER BY CHANGE.

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Beware of your thoughts.

We are what our thoughts have made us; so take care about what you think. Words are secondary. Thoughts live; they travel far. - Swami Vivekananda

I don't think that I need to say any thing more than this. If you have control on your thought you can rule the world. Because in thinking we waste lots of energy and potential. Don't waste your thought. Thought are like NUCLEAR POWER. You can use them creatively and can enlighten your world and on the other hand you can destroy yourself.
So dear friends beware of your thoughts and be watchful of your thought. I hope you like it.
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