Earlier I read it in books and
listened from people, but what I learned from my past experience of last some
year that we should not be judgemental about people in our life. Because when
we judge them and make an opinion about we make a mistake. Later they surprise
us by strange change in their behaviour. Hence, if you are judgemental about
peoples then one thing I can predict about with surety that people around you surprises
you very often. Sometime these surprise make you happy but most of the times
they make you sad.
So it is better to accept that
change is the rule of existence and only constant thing, and humans are not
exception for it. Also, nobody have signed a contract to not to change. Sometime
people change because of changing nature of circumstances around them. While some
change because they keep their face behind a mascot until they get some
position or until they realize that now you are of no use for them, and the
later reason of change disappoint us. This disappointment happens specially
when see this change from our loving ones.
So if we can make ourselves ready
for such type of situations by not being judgemental or by not expecting
anything from others, we can save ourselves for unnecessary disappointments. It
will also give us an advantage over the situation and some sense of wisdom.
So what are you going to do? You will
take notice of my words or wait till self-enlightenment?????? Choice is yours.
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