CHANGE IS THE ONLY CONSTANT

Earlier I read it in books and listened from people, but what I learned from my past experience of last some year that we should not be judgemental about people in our life. Because when we judge them and make an opinion about we make a mistake. Later they surprise us by strange change in their behaviour. Hence, if you are judgemental about peoples then one thing I can predict about with surety that people around you surprises you very often. Sometime these surprise make you happy but most of the times they make you sad.

So it is better to accept that change is the rule of existence and only constant thing, and humans are not exception for it. Also, nobody have signed a contract to not to change. Sometime people change because of changing nature of circumstances around them. While some change because they keep their face behind a mascot until they get some position or until they realize that now you are of no use for them, and the later reason of change disappoint us. This disappointment happens specially when see this change from our loving ones.

So if we can make ourselves ready for such type of situations by not being judgemental or by not expecting anything from others, we can save ourselves for unnecessary disappointments. It will also give us an advantage over the situation and some sense of wisdom.

So what are you going to do? You will take notice of my words or wait till self-enlightenment?????? Choice is yours.

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Love:)

Love is very positive and strong emotion, but it remains as long as there is freedom and acceptance for each other. I read somewhere that LOVE IS LIKE WATER ON YOUR PALM. It will stay there as long as your palm is open. The moment you try to grab the water it will slip from there and you will remain empty handed. So you can say that love is just the extension of these two. When there is freedom for each other and the acceptance for each other penetrates deep into the heart the love evolves. And long as these things remain the love remains and also grows to the infinity. The more you give freedom closer you will be and stronger will be the bond. It gives you energy, satisfaction and happiness. And when your love becomes divine you find yourself in the bliss.

And on the contrary hate and anger are lack of acceptance and freedom. Lower will be the level of acceptance higher will be the level of hate and anger. So things are so relative. But the line is very thin so we forget the individuality of each other so easily and finally that love disappears. We left with empty hand.

Therefore we should respect the freedom of others. We should expand our hearts so that we can grow the level of acceptance. After that the world will be better place to live…..

And also keep smile…

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Why we shout in anger????

I read this story and felt that it will be worth to share with you. Its really great.

"Why We Shout In Anger"

A Hindu saint who was visiting river Ganges to take bath found a group of family members on the banks, shouting in anger at each other. He turned to his disciples smiled 'n asked.

'Why do people shout in anger shout at each other?'

Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm, we shout.'

'But, why should you shout when the other person is just next to you? You can as well tell him what you have to say in a soft manner.' asked the saint

Disciples gave some other answers but none satisfied the other disciples.
Finally the saint explained, .

'When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other to cover that great distance.

What happens when two people fall in love? They don't shout at each other but talk softly, Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is either nonexistent or very small...'

The saint continued, 'When they love each other even more, what happens? They do not speak, only whisper 'n they get even closer to each other in their love. Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other 'n that's all. That is how close two people are when they love each other.'

He looked at his disciples 'n said.

'So when you argue do not let your hearts get distant, Do not say words that distance each other more, Or else there will come a day when the distance is so great that you will not find the path to return.'

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Are you in the pursuit of permanent??????

“Pleasure”. Everybody is running behind pleasure. There are so many means to get the pleasure viz. alcohol, drugs etc. . . . But they don’t last long, because these means or ways are temporary. These means are not permanent. Then they repeat them to turn the temporary into permanent, to elude you and finally it ends with misery. You return empty hand. You can prolong the temporary but you cannot make them permanent.

I am also in the search of pleasure, but I don’t want to resort to temporary means. It is ironical to say but I had a very temporary glimpse of permanent. And what my experience says is that the source of permanent pleasure lies within. All you need to introspect; you need to dig “in”, in the very deep of your own inside. Once you get the source you are never empty. You are always full, full of joy, full of happiness. That will be ultimate. This ultimate pleasure is called BLISS.  

PHILOSOPHY

What is philosophy?

Different persons have different answers for this question and they practice it, follow it for different reasons. For some philosophy is the way towards the God, for some it consist of thoughts to realise the human inside and to be careful towards the same. For some philosophy is the way to fool others and make money earn name and fame. I also have my definition of philosophy.

For me philosophy is the like “spectacles” which corrects the vision which has been blurred because the man has forgot his soul and his ultimate reason of being in this fragile material world.

We are here at the will of the Supreme and one fine day we are destined to unite with the same. But our materialistic approach has made us to forget about our ultimate purpose of being here and has made our vision SPIRITUALLY BLURRED. We cannot see the truth because of this. We are continuously making our life more complex and full of misery. And here comes the philosophy. Philosophy teaches us that what we are. Sorry… teach will not be the correct word here actually philosophy REMINDS us that what we are and why we are here? It corrects our vision or the short shortsightedness. It makes us able to see the truth and to walk on the path towards the supreme. Until we understand the real meaning of our life we are just animal. Philosophy makes us human, it distinguish us from animals.......

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WHAT IS RIGHT, WHAT IS WRONG?

What is right and what is wrong? Everyone has his/her definition. Like what is written as good in holy books is good and what is written as bad is bad. Like what is human is good and vice-versa. But in the current scenario the most appropriate definition will be that if the number of people considering something good is higher than the number of people who is considering something bad then that is good and vice-versa. It depends upon country, place and society. Sounds like the democracy.

But What I have realised is that nobody bother about what is good or what is bad when they do anything. They just do things and after that they find reasons to justify themselves. If their acts are acceptable by majority then they are considered as good or vice-versa. If their acts are not justifiable then they do everything for justifying themselves. They will explain holy book in their own peculiar way or, if they cannot do so then, they can change their religion, region, and society. They can leave their family and friends. They do everything what they have to do for justifying themselves.

I myself don’t think that there is anything wrong in it. Because who I am to judge others. If I’m considering anyone as wrong then he might be thinking same about me. Because if I think that something is wrong by my point of view then perhaps the same thing may be good for the others.

But at the same time if you are doing something which your consciousness is not allowing and still knowingly you are continuing to do the same then that is wrong. You might prefer to do that for momentary pleasure or for short term gain. In future those will definitely going to harm you. And this will really be considered as bad or wrong.

So in short “NEVER GO AGAINST YOUR CONSCIOUSNESS OR AGAINST THE VOICE OF YOUR SOUL. That will really be wrong or bad, and on the contrary to work according to the consciousness and the voice of your soul is really good.

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Pseudo Democracy.....

What are they???? Leaders or Actors!!!

At the night of 29^th Dec I was watching IBN broadcasting discussion on Lokpal Bill. It seemed that I’m watching the high drama movie; I was enjoying it too with the expectation of happy ending like any film ends generally. But that entertainment cost too much and nothing happened as it was expected from a movie.

The cost was breach of trust and faith which we vested in govt., death of emotion and democracy. After all this cost the end was disappointment. It was nothing like a movie. We chose politicians to represent ourselves and to take decisions on our behalf and for our welfare. But that night all the politicians were acting. They were actor not leaders. All were acting on a pre-written script. They were not acting for us they were doing drama to save themselves by delaying the passing of Lokpal Bill. Congress was the script writer and RJD, BSP and SP were the pawns. It was live on the channel that a correspondent sends the SMS to the office that there will be drama in the parliament to delay the Lokpal Bill and it happened in front of the eyes of all. Even if that SMS would have not been sent it was obvious by their behaviour.

And finally the ball came in the court of honourable Speaker. If he would have wished to continue the parliament then there was no provision to prevent him from doing so. But he also chooses to work according to the script. We were cheated. Their all efforts are not to serve the nation or to serve the public. Their efforts are to rule.

It true not only for India it is true for any democracy that politicians take advantage of non-awareness and negative attitude of the public. We think that we cannot do anything. But we can. We need to come out of Facebook. I’m not saying that you stop using it but I mean to say as much as time we spent on Facebook for doing nothing, if we could use only 25% time of Facebook for make ourselves aware about what happening in our country, we will be able to take right decision regarding who to vote for? We can also share useful information on social networking websites. We should also make others aware about this type of things. We should not let these things go just like that. They are answerable for us. We will show them power of our vote and our own. Jan Lokpal Bill will be passed or the government will be no more in power. Jai Hind Jai Bharat. Democracy will win…


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